Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Have you ever felt...

...like you have to struggle to find something nice to say to people whose views differ so vastly from yours that you're afraid if you argue a point, you'll lose a friend?

...like you have to smile and take the underhanded criticism because it's served on a lovely platter with a smile?

...like you work and work and can't get ahead, putting money into a home that is decreasing in value?

...like if you have to go through one more day of the same. exact. routine you may actually lose your mind and cluck like a chicken on the highway?

...that if you hear The Map one more time, you're going to throw your $190 shoes you got on sale for 40$ through the 40-inch LCD screen?

...that you could walk away from it all, take your family and live in the woods somewhere?

...like life is unfair and what's worse is that your "why me?" feelings annoy you because you know how good you really have it and you feel guilty for even feeling this way when there are babies dying somewhere?

...like you can't imagine having any more children and yet the thought of all the beautiful babies you won't have still makes you sad?

...that you chose the wrong career path?

...that you wouldn't be friends with someone you've known for 20 years if you met them today?

...that you are handling things much better than you're supposed to be and that makes you wonder when the bottom is going to fall out?

...that you've got so much love and happiness that you just know tragedy lurks around every corner waiting to take it away from you?

...that you'll kick tragedy's ass if it comes near your family?

20 comments:

J said...

I feel a lot of those things every day. Just knowing that you aren't alone helps a lot. (I know it helps me!)

You are pretty kick ass. Just remember that.


Oh, and don't forget....our favorite FBI agent, one Seeley Booth, makes his 2 hour season premier tonight!

CassJustCurious said...

I may copy you here because I have a whole lot of those today.

Kristin.... said...

Yep. And Yep some more.

holy cow yep

me said...

Yes. Especially the house depreciating one.

Pgoodness said...

Yes. Just YES.

donna said...

Oh sister, yes.

Madame Queen said...

Yeah, I'm doing the nod and smile a lot lately, especially in this here political season. Sometimes it sucks to live in a red state when you're really blue.

Welcome to our World said...

Intensely & often on many of these...

SciFi Dad said...

uh, we have differing opinions on a number of topics; hopefully I'm not the one you're referring to in the opening...

as for the rest, yeah, I feel that way sometimes... but I'm too nervous that my manolo blahniks would break the tv.

anglophilefootballfanatic.com said...

Of course. To all of them.

And, I almost emailed to ask what you thought of Seely, but I see the Twitter on the sidebar (hangs head - haven't been there in weeks).

Annie said...

yes sir re bob! :) I do and I have.

hellokittiemama said...

Yes.... Yes.... Yes!

hang in there!

Morgan said...

D- All of the above.

I have a lot of friends that I don't agree with on a lot of political issues. I really wish I could talk to them and find out exactly what they really believe and why. I wish I could tell them the same things without hearing about how horrible our President is. I get it, but geesh.






....sorry. I'm rambling.

Astarte said...

Oh, Lord, YES. Especially the 'beliefs' thing. At church I'm seen as Wrong by some for being a huge liberal. My liberal friends think I've sold out for going to church. My SIL is a raving republican, and also one of my best friends. Oh, yeah. I'm totally tired of hearing BOTH sides bitch about how the other side doesn't respect them while simultaneously smiling that shark smile.

Ahem. Sorry. Bitch session over. Class dismissed.

Kellie said...

Um...yes. All the time.

Are you alright?

Multi-tasking Mommy said...

Thanks! Now I've got The Map song in my head this early in the morning...YUCK!

chefmom said...

Yikes, I'm in agreement with all of these. Especially #1. People can just be to sensitive sometimes. I lost a friend that way, but ultimately, it fell down to #10. Had I met her later in life, we wouldn't have been friends. And the bottom won't fall out...didn't I say 1 is just as easy as 2? I'm LMAO that Sci-fi Dad knew and spelled "manolo blahniks"!!

Shelly Overlook said...

Yes indeed!

Great list.

McMama said...

Yes. Yes. a million times yes.

Jac said...

Yes doesn't even begin to this answer justice....you definately aren't alone...